Showing posts with label Life's Lessons. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Life's Lessons. Show all posts

Thursday, January 01, 2015

Here's to an awesome 2015!

It's a brand new year again!
The year does zip by so fast, doesn't it?

Hope 2014 was great for you. Remember the good, learn from the bad, and most importantly count our blessings.



Remember.. It is ok to fall...






Life sux sometimes and does get low...


But never fear... Rest if you have to..

Sunday, December 25, 2011

Reflecting on 2011

Merry Christmas!


Had an entry Reflecting on 2010 last year, and I thought I should have one again to mark the end of 2011.
Not that my life is all smooth-sailing and happy-go-lucky... but as usual.. I always prefer to spread "positivity"... look back... be thankful.. and count my blessings...




Biggest news of 2011
The biggest news for me this year... If you have not heard yet...

Saturday, December 24, 2011

Rest In Peace

Friends and loved ones would have known by now, my father-in-law passed away last Friday on 16 Dec 2011.


Everyone has different ways of coping with grief, I do it by remembering the beautiful memories left behind.
I believe that the best way to honour loved ones who have passed on is to live your life the best that you can. That's what they would want.


How nice was my father-in-law to me? I remember with fondness my previous

Monday, December 20, 2010

Inspirational Beyond Words

Probably the most inspirational and motivational person in 2010?


It is simply amazing!!! You really have to see it to believe it...




Live Spectacularly






Check out The Best of 2010 Blog Entries


--Ginseng Tonic Maker-- Countdown to 2011

Tuesday, December 07, 2010

The Importance of English

Remember the naggy English teacher in school who nagged at you to: 


brush up on your English...


learn your grammar....


check your spelling...

and RE-CHECK your spelling...


As though it could destroy you life if you didn't do as told?...



THAT teacher may be right after all...
Carelessness in life unlike in exams.. can cost you more than a few marks...



One spelling mistake can destroy your life.

Thursday, December 02, 2010

Can anything be more important than family?

Had a family lunch over the weekend...
We brought our mum out to Pan Pac for a buffet lunch...
Also coz Wifey and I bought a book for our nephew.. 
It has been a while since I've seen my nephew...
Any longer I think he'll forget my face already...




Feeling grouchy coz he just woke up




Didn't take long for him to warm up



He's squatting down coz I was squatting down trying to take pics of him





The Grandma

His way of showing love....

Wednesday, December 01, 2010

Words of Wisdom - What Life has Taught Me

"Be simple, 
be caring 
and be honest.

That's what a person is remembered for after death,
not how rich he was 
and how much he had"

- Mr I. Ponnampalam, 83





As read on A fighter carries on  in The Straits Times, Nov 28 2010
written by Wong Kim Hoh, Senior Writer


--Ginseng Tonic Maker-- Get High on Life!

Thursday, October 28, 2010

The Lie about Lifelong Learning?

A speech that tells you that it is a big lie that "Learning is a lifelong process"... and goes on to give you an insight...


"You know the sort of people who tell you that? Teachers. Don’t you think there is some measure of conflict of interest? They are in the business of learning, after all. Where would they be without you? They need you to be repeat customers."


In the speech.. Marriage was also mentioned...


"Marriage is considered one milestone of life. Some of you may already be married. Some of you may never be married. Some of you will be married. Some of you will enjoy the experience so much, you will be married many, many times. Good for you."


A great speech full of interesting and funny insights...
More importantly.. 
It gives you great advice on choosing a career and living your life...


Read about the whole speech


http://www.mywealthmodel.com/2010/10/life-coaching-courses.html




--Ginseng Tonic Maker-- Get High on Life!

Thursday, September 09, 2010

Interview Skills 101

Of all the interview skills that I have read about...
This could be the most important of all...
The guts to walk away...

Read about Michael Mothner
and him walking away...

--Ginseng Tonic Maker-- ginseng for guts

Sunday, August 29, 2010

Nike - Warhawk Matt Scott No Excuses

Watch it... No Excuses...
First seen on FB as posted by Ziana... Thanks!



--Ginseng Tonic Maker-- 

Wednesday, July 28, 2010

Thomas Chua Chee Siong - one year on

Remember the name? Thomas Chua Chee Siong? I blogged about him about a year back after hearing him speak at our organisation's seminar.
At the seminar, what I remembered most was how he shared openly on the accident that resulted from the drinking binge, the family support he needed and the emotional roller-coaster that he had to go through. 


It was inspiring to see how he coped with the misfortune and how he now has a positive outlook on life.
Why am I blogging about him again? As I was looking at some old entries, I read about my previous entry and it stirred my emotions again. Hence, I decided to do a little search on how he has been since. (because I'm too shy to make friends with people and he doesn't know me personally haha...)


And he has done well since...


As one of the invited speakers at an event held in Resorts World Sentosa (Jun 2010) Happiness, Resilience and Optimism - skills for thriving in challenging times. Among the speakers was a #1 New York Times bestselling author.
Tickets for the full event was selling at $2,899!!!

http://www.simply-happy.com/newsite/speakers.html


Looking (or peeping) at his Facebook photos, he seems to be quite a regular speaker at conferences and seminars of insurance companies now.
Happy that all is well with him, even though I do not know him at all.


Maybe the next book I read should be his: Beyond the Fall by Thomas Chua Chee Siong 


Beyong the Fall - Thomas Chua Chee Siong


Looks like I am a long way off being cured of my disease and addiction.


--Ginseng Tonic Maker-- Everybody falls, it is the getting up that matters!

Thursday, July 15, 2010

A lesson from the book Letters to Sam - A grandfather's lessons on love, loss, and the gifts of life

Obviously I have not overcome my addiction.
This is my latest read, Letters to Sam - A Grandfather's Lessons on Love, Loss, and the gifts of Life by Daniel Gottlieb. Bought this book at the Hong Kong airport with the balance of my money from the Family Trip earlier this year.


Belongs to the class of my favourite reads, Life's Lessons in a book. The book is written in the form of letters to his grandson Sam who has the condition PDD - Pervasive Developmental Disorder (somewhat in the category of autism). The writer himself is a quadriplegic due to an accident.

Many lessons that we can all learn from. Would like to share one about Healing our wounds and pains for anybody who may be going through a rough patch right now. 

All pain is about longing for yesterday - whatever we had before or whatever used to be. (which may not even be better than now)
Sometimes if you try too hard to fix pain, it only takes longer to heal.
You can't force it or will it as healing takes place in its own way and in its own time.

When in pain, always remember the timeless truth - Time heals all wounds!

--Ginseng Tonic Maker-- Nourish your soul..